I’m sure you have heard of orgies and know basically what an orgy is. They can be highly exhilarating and at the same time overwhelming and a little nerve-racking at times. An orgy is a sexual experience that couples can experience together and enjoy.
Let’s explore why couples should try an orgy at least once in their lifetime. We’ll explore all types of reasons an orgy may be the perfect sexual escape for just about any couple. Orgies are a great option, especially for couples in the swinger lifestyle or open relationship.
Let’s move on and discuss some of the top reasons for joining an orgy as a couple.
An Orgy Can Give Couples the Feeling of Total Sexual Freedom
When’s the last time both of you felt total sexual freedom? The freedom to do what you want with who you want. An orgy can give the two of you the opportunity to just enjoy sex without any set sexual plan. Just the pure sexual freedom to do whatever you sexually want at any given moment in time.
An Orgy Can Give You Both a Night of Pure Sensual No Strings Attached Sex
Sometimes you both really just need to let your hair down and go with the flow and see where it takes you. An orgy gives both of you the chance to have a night of pure sensual no strings attached sex.
You can move from one person to the next while having sex and other people can move to you to have sex and then move on to someone else. You can also experience sex with multiple people at the same time. All of this sex comes with absolutely no strings attached. Everyone in the orgy is there just to enjoy pure sensual no strings attached sex.
An Orgy Can Provide the Thrill of Not Knowing What to Expect
Remember the thrill and excitement you have when you first have sex with someone new? That feeling of not knowing what to expect? Well, an orgy can give you that same thrill of not knowing what to expect over and over with all types of different people.
An orgy always gives you the thrill of not knowing what sexually is going to be done to you or knowing who is going to have sex and play with you. Orgy dynamics constantly change, leaving you with not knowing what is going to happen next.
An Orgy Basically Has No One-on-One Sex Pressure to Satisfy the Other Person
Another benefit of participating in an orgy is there is basically no one-on-one sex pressure to satisfy the other person. During a good orgy, people move from one partner to the next or join in with a group that is pleasuring a single person.
So, orgy sex can be a very low or no pressure way to have all the sex you want with multiple sex partners. Or even be sexually pleasured by a group of people all at the same time.
An Orgy Has No Expectations From Others
That heading may be a little misleading. Orgies do have some expectations. For example, to have fun and to have sex. Now on to what I meant when I wrote that an orgy has no expectations from others.
People enjoying an orgy don’t expect most things from others that normal sex does expect. Here are some examples, getting and maintaining an erection, actually cumming and having an orgasm, someone’s full attention, etc.
The main focus of an orgy is to just enjoy yourself and have lots of sex with lots of people. Nothing more and nothing less. It’s a no expectations environment.
An Orgy Lets Couples Experiment and Enjoy the Experience Individually but Together
This one may need a little explaining to understand. I’ll do my best to explain why an orgy lets couples experiment and enjoy the experience individually but together.
When you join a large number of people having sex, you will most likely lose each other fairly quickly. This leaves both of you to sexually experiment the way you want alone with others in the orgy. But it also lets you experience the same orgy together. You are still both in the same room and near each other, even though you will most likely lose sight of each other at sometime during the orgy.
That’s what I mean by saying you enjoy the experience alone but together. You can experiment sexually with things you want to experience while your partner has the freedom to do the same.
An Orgy Just Lets You Get Lost in the Moment
Since there is so much sex action going on during an orgy, hearing the sounds of sex and seeing nothing but naked bodies having sex in all types of ways, you can easily get lost in the moment.
Getting lost in the moment can greatly help to reduce performance anxiety and worrying about what others are thinking about you. You can just enjoy the orgy and not need to think about anything except pleasure.
No Need to Worry About Your Partner During an Orgy
Most people worry about their partners when swinging, having a threesome, etc. But when it comes to orgies, you really don’t need to worry if your partner is getting attention or is feeling left out.
Orgies move so quickly, and many participants move from one sex partner to the next so frequently, it’s hard not to get any sexual attention when you are in a pile of naked bodies. Orgies give you both the freedom to not worry about your partner and just concentrating on having a good time.
An Orgy Relieves You of the Pressure of Being the Center of Attention
Many people love being the center of attention. But many also get very nervous if all eyes are on them and they are the center of everyone’s sexual attention. Participating in an orgy relieves the stress and pressure of being the center of attention but at the same time, can still be pleasured by more than one person at a time.
When you are in a sea of naked bodies you may be having sex with a body part and don’t even know who they are or what the rest of them looks like. The same also goes, if someone is having sex with one of your body parts, other bodies may be blocking their view of the rest of you. Most of the time, you don’t even know who you are sexually playing with.
An Orgy Can Lower Your Performance Anxiety
One-on-one sex, threesomes, partner swapping, small groups of people having sex together, etc. can all produce performance anxiety that can really put a damper on the moment. When performance anxiety kicks in, almost everyone has a tendency to get in their own head and make the anxiety even worse.
Here comes the orgy to the rescue. An orgy can lower performance anxiety for many reasons. One being that almost everyone in the orgy is concentrating on their pleasure. If you can’t get it up or you can’t self-lubricate, you can still enjoy the sexual experience, and nobody is going to care at all that you are having problems. This can lead to you relaxing and lower your own performance anxiety a lot.
Orgies Can Give You Anonymity While Having Sex
Most people that participate in an orgy end up having sex with a lot of different people. They are also so caught up in the moment, they don’t really remember any specifics with any specific person.
The semi-anonymity takes a load off your mind and even if you thought you were lousy at something sexual with a person, they most likely really did not even notice you as an individual. You were just part of the larger group of bodies all having sex.
An Orgy Gives the Two of You Something Exciting to Talk About
So, the orgy is over and the two of you are now sexually spent, exhausted and satisfied. Well, the orgy is still not over giving the two of you benefits. Now the two of you have something great and exciting to talk about.
After the orgy, later that night, or even later that week, sit down and talk about what you each experienced during the orgy. It’s a great way to learn more about your partner’s sexual wants and desires. You may learn something that turned them on that they did not even know before the orgy.
An Orgy Can Produce Exhilarating Long-Term Memories
An orgy can be a very wild sexual experience when it happens. It can also produce exhilarating memories of the event even months and years later. Even a few years later you may find the two of you talking about it and reliving the experience of the orgy in your minds.
An orgy can even make a great item to put on your couple’s sex bucket list.
