12 Couples Sex Bucket List Ideas for Open-Minded Couples

So, you and your partner are open-minded and are looking for ideas to add to your sex bucket list.

I have put together 12 sex bucket list ideas that you may want to consider. Let’s just see how open-minded the two of you really are.

I’ll give you a quick list of the 12 couples sex bucket list ideas for open-minded couples and then go into detail about each one of them.

Here they are.

• Seduce a Friend for a Threesome
• Seduce a Couple for Group Sex
• Bring out Some Sex Games at a Party
• Play Strip Poker With the Neighbors
• Watch a Private Cam Show While Having Sex
• Arrange Surprise Group Sex for Your Partner
• You and a Friend Seduce Your Partner
• Make a Porn Movie and Show It at a Swingers Club
• Do a Striptease at a Party
• Have Sex With a Different Couple Each Day for ?? Days
• Live out One or More of Your Sexual Fantasies
• Read an Erotic Story and Live It in Real Life

Since you are still reading, you must be at least a little open-minded. So, let’s dive in and look at each of the sex bucket list ideas in detail.

12 Couples Sex Bucket List Ideas for Open-Minded Couples

Here are the 12 couples bucket list ideas for open-minded couples and the details about each one. They are in no particular order of how open-minded the two of you need to be.

Read each one and see how many you are daring enough to add to your couple’s sex bucket list.

Seduce a Friend for a Threesome

Have a friend that the two of you have the hots for? Would the two of you like to have sex with them? Add seducing a friend for a threesome to your couple’s sex bucket list.

You could even make it a competition. Who can get your friend to agree to having a threesome with the two of you first.

Here are some ideas that the two of you could use to seduce your friend.

If it’s a male you will be seducing, it’s most likely going to be pretty easy. Just have the woman start flirting with him. Then have the man take him aside and tell him that she seems to want you. Would you be interested in helping me get her to have a threesome with us? Of course, the woman is already in on the setup.

If it’s a female you will be seducing, it’s going to be a little more difficult. What the woman can do is be very touchy feelie with the man in front of her. Then, the guy can go to get drinks or to the bathroom. While he is gone the woman can start talking to her about helping her to seduce her man for a threesome.

Another way is to have the woman flirt with her and see if she responds in a positive manner. If she does, the woman can then bring up the possibility of a threesome.

Seduce a Couple for Group Sex

This one can be a little difficult but can be done. Add seducing a couple for group sex to your bucket list.

Are the two of you friends with a couple you would like to have sex with? You could try seducing them. Here are some ideas on how to go about that.

Invite them over for dinner and a movie. During dinner move the conversation to what everyone has done for excitement. Or what they have done that society in general would not approve of. Of course, guide this conversation to sexual adventures.

Now settle in for a few drinks and a movie. Make sure the movie you pick has a few scenes with some type of sex in them. Preferably a group sex scene.

When the sex scenes show, start talking a little about how that looks like what we should be doing. Guide the conversation.

If they seem responsive, you could then start dropping hints. Or maybe try getting the girls to do a seductive dance for the two guys.

If that works well, maybe bring up playing a game of strip poker.

Once you get everyone in less clothing, it’s time to hint about the four of you having sex.

Or, if you prefer, you could go to a bar and pick up a couple you don’t know. This article will get too long if I start giving out ideas on how to do that here. So, I’ll write an article dedicated to seducing couples in bars and nightclubs. Watch for it!

Bring out Some Sex Games at a Party

Like to shock people? Here is an idea you can add to your couple’s bucket list that has some good shock value.

Throw a party and invite over a group of people you know and have gone to parties within the past.

Now, after the party is going strong and the drinks are flowing, bring up the idea of everyone playing some games. Of course, don’t mention adult sex games just yet.

Now go get several adult games and sex games that you just happened to have available and bring them out.

When you come back into the room with an arm full of games, announce that you found some really cool games. Now lay them down on the floor or table and watch everyone’s faces.

Some people may all of a sudden decide that it’s time to go while others may start looking through the games.

If any leave in disgust, you can always tell them later it was just a joke, or you had too much to drink.

Just have fun with it and see where it goes.

Play Strip Poker With the Neighbors

Have some neighbors you want to see naked? Invite them over and play a game of strip poker with them.

Now I can hear you asking, how do I get them to play strip poker?

Here are some ideas you can use to possibly get them to play.

Invite them over for some drinks and to play a regular poker. Once all of you have had a drink or two, it’s time to start moving the game towards strip poker.

When you (the guy) is about to lose a hand, in a fun way, offer your shirt to up the bid. Now your partner needs to play this up a bit and egg you on to do it.

Take off your shirt and toss it on the table. Of course, you lose the hand.

Now it’s time to swap things up. Now when you (the girl) are about to lose a hand, offer up a piece of clothing for the bet. Your partner should be hamming it up a bit like he does not believe you will do it.

Then you take off that piece of clothing and toss it on the table.

Now it’s time to suggest that all of you play for clothes. Then see where it goes.

Watch a Private Cam Show While Having Sex

Want to try something different but not too far outside your comfort level? You could go to a live sex cam website and find someone that interests you. On some live sex cam sites, you can even search by the fetish you are interested in.

Chat with the model for a short period of time to see if you both are interested in them. Then, take the cam model private. Watch the per minute rate so it does not get too expensive.

You could have the model tell the two of you what to do. Or the two of you could tell the sex cam model what you want to see.

Some sex cam sites have video to video so the model can also see the two of you if you have a webcam and It’s on.

You could also give your partner oral sex while they are watching and interacting with the webcam model.

With sex cam shows, you can experience a third person without them being physically with the two of you.

Arrange Surprise Group Sex for Your Partner

If your partner is open-minded enough and you select the group of people wisely, you could add this one to your couple’s bucket list.

Arrange surprise group sex for your partner.

If you wanted it to be really exciting and possibly outside your partners comfort zone a little, you could tie them to the bed and blindfold them. After the two of you start having sex, bring in the other people without them knowing.

Can you imagine the shock your partner will feel when they figure out there are more people than just you touching them? Hopefully it will be a good shocked.

Another way you could surprise your partner is to take them to a supposed dinner party. Have the group of people answer the door naked. Make sure you get a good look at your partners face when the door opens, and they see that the dinner party hosts are nude.

Then let your partner know that they are the dessert.

You and a Friend Seduce Your Partner

Have a very open-minded friend that would be willing to help you seduce your partner? This can be a fun bucket list item to try.

Just imagine the face of your partner when you and your friend try to seduce them.

This one can work well for seducing the man or the woman. If the women are bisexual, it can be even easier to seduce the other partner.

You could have your friend mimic your moves on your partner. You both could sit on opposite sides of your partner and get up close.

If you are seducing the man, the two women could simply start off seductively dancing with each other and removing some items of clothing from each other. Then move to seducing the man.

If you are seducing the woman, the two of you could start giving her a massage that slowly starts to get sexual in nature.

Just have fun with this one and see what happens.

Make a Porn Movie and Show It at a Swingers Club

Are the two of you a little bit of an exhibitionist? Have you ever thought of making a porn movie? Here is a little twist on this that could make a good couple’s bucket list item to try.

Make a porn movie and show it on one of the TVs at a swingers club. Just get the club to play it and don’t tell anyone that it is the two of you.

See how long it takes other guests of the swingers club to figure out that the porn starts on the TV are the two of you.

You’ll probably get a lot of invitations to go play as people start noticing you two are the porn stars.

Do a Striptease at a Party

Want to get the sexual tension at a party going? You could do a striptease at a party when no-one is expecting it. In fact, if you have the right crowd, both of you could do a striptease.

Once you are down to barley wearing anything, start giving lap dances to the party goers. Especially give the ones that get embarrassed easily the most seductive lap dances.

Keep going until you are completely naked and then start to attempt to take the clothes off of the other people at the party while giving them lap dances.

If someone you are giving a lap dance to, seems to be responding well, you could even start a little sexual play with them.

Try getting others to also do a striptease. See if you can get the party going wild.

Have Sex With a Different Couple Each Day for ?? Days

Do the two of you like a fun and exciting challenge? Why not set a goal of how many different couples you can have sex within a set amount of time? How is that for a couple’s bucket list item idea?

Select a number of hours, days, weeks or even months for your goal. Now it’s time for the two of you to get busy. See if you can have sex with a different couple each hour or each day.

If you are going to a swingers club or swingers hotel takeover, the have sex with a different couple each hour could be a fun goal to set.

If you travel a lot, you could set the goal to have sex with a different couple each day or week.

When you hit a goal, set a new one!

Live out One or More of Your Sexual Fantasies

Do either of you have a sexual fantasy? Have you ever considered adding one or more of your sexual fantasies to your couple’s sex bucket list? Why not?

You can start with your tamer sexual fantasies and actually live it out. Then move on to a wilder fantasy and live it out.

You could even take turns with who’s fantasy you live out next.

Got some really taboo fantasies? Are the two of you close enough to not be judgmental of the other? If so, get the courage up and start talking about your more taboo fantasies. Your partner may even agree to help you live it out as a couple.

You’ll never know what sexual fantasies the two of you can live out unless you communicate them to each other.

Read an Erotic Story and Live It in Real Life

Don’t have a lot of sexual fantasies? Or are you not ready to let your partner know about the sexual fantasies you have or have had in the past? You still have options for couple’s sex bucket list items that can be mild to wild.

Read erotic stories and if one gets you a little sexually excited, tell your partner about it or have them read it. Make sure you let them know exactly what in the story was a turn-on for you.

Then, together, plan out actually living the erotic story.

Erotic stories can provide you with a never-ending list of possible sexual bucket list items for the two of you to consider.

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