Looking to add sexual excitement and tension to your next swingers party? Here are seven fun adult swinger games you could add to your next swinger party.
Here is the list of adult swinger games that will be explored in this article.
- The Secret Box of Sex Game
- You Laugh you Strip Game
- Secret Sexual Fantasy Game
- Musical Lap Dance Game
- Sexual Sticker Hunt Game
- Swingers Coin Toss Game
- Naked Twister Game
Want to learn more about these adult swinger party games? Want to learn how to play them at your next swinger party? I’ll be going over each of these fun adult games. So, continue reading.
7 Fun Adult Swinger Games for Your Next Swinger Party
Here are the seven adult swinger party games to add sexual excitement and sexual tension to your next swinger party or sex party.
The Secret Box of Sex Game
Have you ever played “Truth or Dare?” Well, the secret box of fun game is played in a similar way but with a twist and designed for swinger parties or sex parties.
The party host needs to setup a box with a slit in the top, similar to a voting box. You should leave a pad and pens by the box with a sign mentioning the game. Also have instructions on how it is played for your guests to read.
When a new couple or single arrives at the party, they should write down two truth question and two dares all on separate pieces of paper, fold them up individually, and insert them into the box. Later that evening once all the guests have arrived, the game will be played.
When it’s time to play the secret box of sex game, gather all the party goers in a room. The host should then bring out the box and mix up the folded pieces of paper. Each person in turn will draw a piece of paper out of the box and hand it to the host.
The player will stand in the middle of the room while the party host reads the truth or dare.
The player must then answer the truth question or perform the dare in front of everyone.
The excitement of this game is that you don’t know who wrote the truth or dare. It could be something mild to extremely wild.
Here are the basic rules of the game:
- All truth questions should involve sex that swingers would be interested in knowing the answer too.
- All dares must be sexual in nature and be appropriate for the type of party.
- Truth or dares written down can’t specify a specific person at the party.
- All truth or dares must be worded so they can be answered or performed by either a male or female.
- A player may refuse to answer any truth question or perform any dare if they don’t feel comfortable with it.
- The game will continue until all pieces of paper have been drawn. Or if a spontaneous orgy starts.
- If the player is bisexual, they can perform a dare on the opposite sex or the same sex of a player that is also bisexual or bi-curious.
Here are some sample truth questions:
What is the maximum number of people you have had sex with at the same time?
Have you ever been in a gangbang? Describe what it was like.
Where is the most daring place you have ever had sex?
Have you ever picked up a stranger in a bar just to have sex? Have you ever thought about it?
Tell everyone your most wild and taboo fantasy.
Here are some sample dares:
Perform a striptease in front of everyone.
Give a sensual lap dance to each person of the opposite sex.
Perform oral sex on the 12th person of the opposite sex sitting clockwise from you.
Spin a bottle and remove all the clothing of the person of the opposite sex it points closest to and then kiss them all over their body.
Masturbate in front of everyone.
Give every one of the opposite sex a good kiss.
You Laugh you Strip Game
All game players should sit around the room in as close to a circle as possible. Each player, starting with the party host will move to the center of the players and spin a bottle on the floor or table.
The person the bottle points closest to stands up and moves to the center of the group.
You set a timer for 2 minutes. The other players try to get the player in the center to laugh or crack a smile. Use your imagination to make them laugh or smile.
If the person laughs or smiles, even a little before the 2 minutes are up, they have to remove an article of clothing.
If the person is already nude, they must give the person that the person that made them laugh, or smile, a sexual lap dance for 2 minutes.
Here are a few basic rules you may want to consider:
- The bottle must complete at least one complete circle to count. If it does not, the player must spin it again.
- The game play direction should be decided at the start by the party host. It can move either clockwise or counterclockwise.
- You can’t touch the person that everyone is trying to make laugh.
Secret Sexual Fantasy Game
Have a box with a slit in the top near the entry to the swingers party. Have a pad of paper and a pen beside the box. You can add a sign that says “Secret Sexual Fantasy Game” by the box. Also have instructions available for guests to read.
Each person coming to the party should write down a very secret fantasy they have. The more taboo the better. They fold it up and put it in the box.
Later in the evening, the party guests should gather for the reading of the sexual fantasies.
The party host or someone they select should read each fantasy out loud to the group, it is then torn up and destroyed for the privacy of the writer. As each fantasy is read, everyone in the group that has or likes the fantasy should raise their hand. The person that wrote the fantasy should keep their hand down to keep it a secret.
This way the person that wrote the fantasy can see who else likes or has the same fantasy as them.
The secret sexual fantasy game can be a great way to see if anyone else shares one of your really taboo fantasies without the writer needing to divulge their fantasy to others.
This game is also a great way to find others that you can enjoy living your fantasy out with.
The fantasy writer can approach others with the same fantasy or who liked it later or keep their fantasy to themselves.
You can even use this game to learn new fantasies that you have never thought about or possibly even heard of.
There is only one rule to this game. No ridiculing or condemning any fantasy no matter how much you dislike or disprove of it.
Musical Lap Dance Game
Do you remember playing musical chairs as a kid? Well, the musical lap dance game is the consenting adult version. This is a great icebreaker game for any swinger party.
You will need an even number of men and women playing this game. You will also need one less chair than the number of men that will be playing the game.
Setup the chairs so the group playing can walk around them in a circle.
Alternatively, you can use your regular living room furniture in place of some of the chairs. A couch can be used to replace three chairs.
Start some music and have the players start walking around all of the chairs. After a few seconds or minutes, stop the music.
All of the men must attempt to find an empty chair and sit down. The man that can’t find a chair, is out of the game.
As the men are sitting down, the women need to find a man with an empty lap and sit down on his lap. The woman that can’t find an empty lap is out of the game.
Now, the music should be started again, and the women should give the men lap dances. They can be as naughty as you want. Penetration is completely up to the players.
After a minute or two of lap dancing, stop the music again. All players should stand and start walking around the chairs again. Once everyone is standing, start the music again.
One chair should be removed between each round of play. If you are using a living room chair or couch section, place something on it to let the players know it no longer can be used.
When ready, stop the music. Like before, all of the men should try to find a seat and sit down. The women should find empty laps.
The male and female left standing is out of the game.
Repeat the lap dancing like before.
Keep repeating the rounds until only one couple is left. They should then be declared the winners and optionally given some type of prize.
The musical lap dance game can be played with or without clothes on. Or you could have each person remove one article of clothing between rounds.
If a couple is playing, you could make a rule that the women are not allowed to sit on their partners lap while playing the game.
Sexual Sticker Hunt Game
All you need to play the sexual sticker hunt game is a group of consenting adults and a pack of stickers. This game can get a swingers party heated up fast.
This game is best played women vs men. It’s played in two rounds. You can have either the women play first, or the men play first.
The goal of the sexual sticker hunt game is to see what group can find all the hidden stickers the fastest.
Here is how to play the sexual sticker hunt game at your swingers party.
Get together and even number of men and women that want to play the game. Decide if the women or men will be hunting for the stickers first. In this example the men will be the hunters in the first round.
The women will take a pack of stickers and go to a different room and hide the stickers on each other’s bodies. You will need to decide how many stickers will be used for game play. Not all of the players have to have stickers placed hidden on them. Mix it up, some players should have more stickers, some should have less, and some should have none.
After all of the stickers have been hidden, the women should return to the room where the guys are.
Each guy should be blindfolded. Once all of the guys have blindfolds on, it’s time to start the first round.
The party host should start a timer and say go! The guys then need to search the women and find all the stickers. Each time a sticker is found, the host should announce how many stickers still need to be found.
The guys can remove the women’s clothing while searching but the women should not help them.
If a guy can’t find any stickers on the girl he is searching, he can feel around and find another girl to search or help search. This is the only time anyone is allowed to speak. They can declare if they are a woman or a man when someone touches them.
Once all of the stickers have been found, the timer is stopped and how much time it took the guys to find all of the stickers should be recorded.
Now it’s time for the guys to go to another room and hide the same number of stickers on each other.
The guys return to the room and this time the girls are blindfolded. This round of the game is played like the first round. Just the women are now the hunters.
Once the women have found all of the hidden stickers, their time is recorded.
The group that finds all of the stickers the fastest is the winner.
Swingers Coin Toss Game
All you need is an empty box and a coin to play this game at your next swingers party. This is one game that can be played off and on during the party.
To set things up, take a box about the size of a pizza box and cut down the sides of it so they are no more than 2 inches in height. The host should toss a coin into the box from a about 5 to 10 feet away.
Draw a circle around the coin and write the number one in the center of that circle. Write that number down on the list as number one. Beside the number on the list, write down a sexy or sexual act.
Here are some ideas of what you could start the list off with:
- Do a striptease for everyone at the party.
- Give 2 minutes of oral sex to a selected person.
- French kiss 5 people that are selected by your partner or the host.
- Give someone a 2 minute butt massage.
Now it’s time to start the game.
Throughout the party, couples or singles can toss a coin into the box. If it lands touching a circle, the person tossing the coin must do what the corresponding act for that number tells them to do. They must perform the sexy or sexual act for two minutes or other agreed upon time.
If they refuse, they must remove 2 articles of clothing and leave those clothing items off for the remainder of the party.
If the coin does not touch any existing circle, they draw a circle around the coin and write the next available number in the center of it. They then add a sexy or sexual act of their choosing to the growing list.
They should then dare someone else at the party to toss a coin. The same player can’t toss two times in a row. Someone else must toss a coin before they can play again.
If a sexy or sexual act requires a partner or multiple partners, here are some ideas on how to select them.
Have your partner or host select them for you.
Ask the party who wants to be your partner for the sexy or sexual act and then pick from the volunteers.
Each party guest could be assigned a number as they arrive at the party. Pieces of paper can be placed in a box, bowl, or hat with each number on it. You can have one set of numbers for the guys and another for the girls.
Optionally you could set up for sets of numbers. Guys, girls, bisexual girls and bisexual guys. If someone is bisexual, they would have pieces of paper in two sets.
Then draw pieces of paper with the numbers on them to select your partner or partners.
The game can be played throughout the night and can liven up a party by just daring others to toss a coin into the box.
Naked Twister Game
Here is an oldie but a goody for adding excitement to a swingers party. Setup an old-fashioned Twister game in one of the rooms that party guests can play. You may find it best to set the game up in the main room so everyone can watch the players and join in if they wish.
If you have any rules to game play, they should be written down so everyone is aware of them before playing.
One rule should be that anyone that wants to play must be totally nude. Another rule you may want to add is each new player must take a quick shower. This way everyone smells fresh, and the game will be much more enjoyable.
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