Have you ever wondered why swingers swap wives for sex? They actually do this for more than just the actual sex part. Let’s explore 9 different reasons that swingers swap partners for sex.
Here are the nine popular reasons that swingers swap wives for sex.
- Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Explore New Sexual Experiences
- Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Enhance Their Relationship
- Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Reduce Monotony
- Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Help Overcome Some Fears
- Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Help Invigorate Their Marriage
- Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Help Improve Sexual Communication
- Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Help Improve Trust
- Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Experience Compersion
- Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Experience Deep Emotional Bonds
Let’s now explore each of these reasons’ swingers swap wives for sex in detail.
9 Reasons Why Swingers Swap Wives for Sex
Swingers swap wives for sex for many reasons. Let’s look at nine of those reasons in detail.
When reading through them, keep in mind that when swingers swap partners for sex, they may swap in different ways.
Some swingers prefer to swap partners but remain in the same room or bed while they have sex. Other swingers prefer to swap partners and go to separate rooms to have sex. Some swingers even swap partners and have sex at completely different locations.
Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Explore New Sexual Experiences
Each time swingers swap partners for sex, each of them gets to experience sex in a slightly different way. Each person you have sex with, provides you with a new experience to see sex in a slight or drastic new way.
Swapping sexual partners lets you explore and experiment with new sexual techniques. For example, your partner may not like a specific sexual act, but swapping partners with someone who does lets you still experience that sex act.
Swapping partners can give you the opportunity to experience different kinds of sex including BDSM, bisexuality, etc.
Does one of you have a sexual fantasy that the other has no interest in? Swapping wives for the night can allow that partner to experience that fantasy with another sex partner.
Do you or your partner have an interest in a sexual kink but don’t know how to experience it properly and safely? By finding other couples that are into that kink, you can swap partners so you can experience with a partner that knows the ins and outs of that particular kink.
Do you or your partner want to try something sexually that the other can’t provide? Let me give some simple examples.
The male partner wants to fuck your boobs, but your boobs are not big enough. Find a couple with a female with big boobs.
The female partner wants to experience a very large cock fucking her, but you are average in size. Find a couple with a male that is well endowed.
Swapping wives allow the two of you to experience a variety of sex with multiple sexual partners.
By experiencing sex with multiple partners, you learn more about sex and become more open-minded about sex.
Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Enhance Their Relationship
Many people will never understand how swapping wives for sex can enhance a relationship. But swingers do understand how sex with other partners can enhance a solid relationship.
One warning, notice I said solid relationship? Swapping wives can enhance a solid relationship but tear apart a relationship that is on rocky ground. If you have a rocky relationship, I would concentrate on improving it first, before entering the swinger lifestyle.
Having sex with different partners allows both of you to satisfy your needs for variety. It also allows you to learn new sexual techniques that you can surprise your partner with the next time the two of you are having sex.
Swapping partners can also lead to very sexually charged conversations with each other after. Talking about your sexual experience in an enthusiastic way with your partner can enhance your relationship even more.
Talking about what you liked and disliked about sex with another partner can bring an open-minded couple closer together. They get to share their experiences with each other. This alone, can build a strong friendship between partners that they may have never had before.
Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Reduce Monotony
I don’t want to piss anyone off or make them feel bad, but let’s face it. Sex with the same person over a long period of time can become, predictable, boring, and more of a process. Sex can lose its spontaneity.
Swingers that swap partners for sex reduce monotony. Even when they are having sex with each other. Swapping wives can bring excitement back into their own sex with each other.
Swapping partners give both of you renewed interests in sex, as well as new things to try with each other.
The two of you will most likely learn things about each other that you did not know. You could learn what they like sexually that they never communicated to you.
Sexual experimentation is one of the best ways to reduce or eliminate boredom and monotony. Swapping partners gives you a lot more chances to experiment with sex.
Swingers that swap partners for sex have a tendency to have much more fulfilling sex lives with each other.
Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Help Overcome Some Fears
Swingers sometimes swap partners to help one of them overcome a sexual fear that they have.
If one of you has a sexual fear that they are not comfortable having their partner assist them with overcoming it, may be more comfortable confronting it with someone else.
The types of fears I am talking about can be something simple as light BDSM play or bisexual exploration.
The fear could also be something like being afraid that your partner may enjoy sex with someone and leave you. Having someone else to talk to that has had that fear in the past may help to eliminate that fear.
A fear like this could simply be eliminated when you realize that you just had sex with someone, enjoyed it, and still deeply love your partner.
Exploring a fear with someone else can also lead to opening up with your partner about the fear. This can help lead to overcoming the fear completely or at least putting it to rest.
Exploring sexual fears with someone besides your partner can lead to exploring other fears with your partner. It can also help to open communication to explore any fears one of you has that is not sexual in nature.
Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Help Invigorate Their Marriage
Do the two of you have a strong relationship but it seems to be lackluster or stale? Swingers swap wives for sex to help invigorate their marriage and bring back excitement to it, both in and out of the bedroom.
Swapping partners can bring exciting things the two of you can do together and talk about one on one. Swapping partners can bring back to life energy the two of you used to share.
Swapping partners can also make you feel sexier and sexually wanted. It can make you feel the way you were when the two of you first started dating.
Swapping partners for sex can be one of the best ways to spice up your love life and give you something to explore together.
Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Help Improve Sexual Communication
Many couple have problems talking to each other about sex and what they like and dislike. Swapping partners for sex on a regular basis can help greatly with opening sexual communications with your partner.
Being active in the swinger lifestyle brings the topic of sex high on the list.
Swapping partners helps you and your partner to have new sexual things to talk about. This in turn helps you to discuss what you like about sex and what you don’t with your partner.
This improved open sexual communication between partners also helps both of you to not be afraid or shy about telling your partner exactly what you want them to do to you while the two of you are having sex.
Being able to communicate your deep sexual desires with your partner can open more sexual opportunities and possibilities the two of you can explore as a team.
Open communication can make both of you grateful for having a partner that sex is not a taboo subject.
Discussing all types of sex in a nonjudgmental way with your partner can deepen and strengthen your love between each other.
Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Help Improve Trust
This reason may sound strange to you but let me explain how swapping wives for sex can actually build more trust between the two of you.
Have you or your partner ever had a thought about having sex with someone else outside your relationship? I’m talking that deep thought of wanting to have sex with someone without letting your partner know about that thought.
Even partners in very strong relationships can have thoughts about having sex with someone they met. It may just be a fleeting thought, or it could be a recurring thought that could remotely possibly lead to cheating on your partner or at least thoughts of cheating on your partner.
Partner swapping for sex lets both of you experiment with other sex partners openly. This openness can build trust between couples.
If one of you has an urge to have sex with someone, the two of you can openly discuss the possibility of it happening with consent of the other partner.
Being open and transparent about your sexual needs and desires with each other, goes a long way toward building trust between the two of you.
Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Experience Compersion
Many swingers actually swap partners for sex to experience compersion. If you are not familiar with the term compersion, don’t worry, I’ll explain what it is, so you don’t have to run and lookup the word.
Compersion is basically the opposite of jealousy. Compersion can be compared to that feeling of excitement and joy you get from seeing someone close to you really enjoying themselves.
In the swinging lifestyle you can compare it to the feeling you get of excitement for your partner when you see them enjoying sex with someone else or enjoying sex with a group of people. The feeling of compersion can be felt to its height when you see your partner having a very strong orgasm while having sex with someone else.
This feeling of compersion also helps to keep from being constrictive with your partner and opening up more to their enjoyment of sex.
When your partner sees you having the experience of compersion, it allows them to be much freer when having sex knowing that it pleases their partner to see then enjoying it with other sex partners.
Swingers Swap Wives for Sex to Experience Deep Emotional Bonds
Swingers swap partners for sex to experience deep emotional bonds with other sex partners.
We are at nature social creatures. We form bonds with others when we have sex. During sex, oxytocin is released along with other hormones that cause us to emotionally bond with the person we are having sex with. The more we let go during sex, the deeper the bond is formed.
This bonding can be described as a very deep emotional bond that causes us to form an attachment to the person we had sex with. When this type of emotional bonding occurs, it gives us the opportunity to form deep and lasting friendships that present a love for the other person.
This bonding also gives us the opportunity to develop a circle of very close friends that we have emotional feelings for. You could almost call it an alternative family structure.
Many swingers enjoy bonding to many sexual partners and build a love for each other that lasts a lifetime.
Very strong bonding can lead to extended alternative families where each partner has multiple sexual partners, and they all form a group that loves one another the same way a couple loves each other.
The intimacy between the original couple increases as they share experiences with their other sexual partners as a group.
The one downside to this type of bonding is when one of the people you have bonded to leaves the group. Since you had an emotional attachment to them, you feel pain when they leave.
On the other side, the bonds you create can bring you exciting and wonderful memories you would have never experienced.