Have you gotten confused by some abbreviations used in swinger ads and profiles? Have you been in a swinger chat room and saw abbreviations being used that you don’t know the meaning of?
Let’s explore the common abbreviations used by swingers.
Popular abbreviations you will see in swinger ads and profiles include, MC, MWC, MBC, MAC, IR, SWF, SBF, SAF, SWM, SBM, SAM, MILF, STR, STR8, BI, BIF, BIM, ISO, ONS, FWB, WLTM, DTF, RTS, LTR, DDF, DF, SD, LD, NS, HWP, ASL, VGL, BBW, FFM, FMF, MFM, MMF and more.
Let’s take a look at these and other abbreviations used in the swinging lifestyle.
Swinger Abbreviations You Need to Know
Here are the abbreviations most used by swingers. If you know of one that is not listed below, just ask around the swinger community what it means. After a while you will know and recognize all the common abbreviations used by swingers.
MC
The abbreviation MC stands for “married couple.” You will see this frequently in swinger ads and swinger profiles since the majority of swingers are couples.
MWC
You will see the abbreviation MWC when reading through swinger ad and swinger site profiles. MWC means “Married White Couple.”
MBC
You will see the abbreviation MBC when reading through swinger ad and swinger site profiles. MBC means “Married Black Couple.”
MAC
You will see the abbreviation MAC when reading through swinger ad and swinger site profiles. MAC means “Married Asian Couple.”
IR
IR means “Interracial Couple.” You will see it in swinger ads and profiles when the couple wants you to be aware that each of them is a different race.
SWF
SWF is an abbreviation for “Single White Female.” You may see others referring to any single female in the swinger lifestyle as a Unicorn. The mythical creature that is highly sought after but extremely rare.
SBF
Another single female abbreviation. SBF stands for “Single Black Female.”
SAF
The abbreviation SAF stands for “Single Asian Female.”
SWM
The abbreviation SWM means “Single White Male.” You will see this used in swinger ads and profiles alerting others that they are a single male and not a couple.
SBM
The abbreviation SBM means “Single Black Male.” You will see this used in swinger ads and profiles alerting others that they are a single male and not a couple.
SAM
The abbreviation SAM means “Single Asian Male.” You will see this used in swinger ads and profiles alerting others that they are a single male and not a couple.
MILF
The abbreviation MILF stands for “Mother I Would Like to Fuck.” It refers to an older woman with children that is attractive. If it’s an older woman without children, she would be referred to as a cougar. Cougar also refers to an older woman that is looking for younger guys.
STR or STR8
The abbreviation STR or STR8 will be seen in swinger ads and profiles. It refers to someone that is straight and will only sexually play with the opposite sex. They are not interested in bisexual encounters.
In the swinging community you will find that most males are straight and many of the females are bisexual or at least bi-curious.
BI
The abbreviation BI stands for “Bisexual.” You will see it used by women in swinger ads and profiles to let people know that they enjoy same sex sexual encounters. Occasionally you will see it used by a male in the swinger lifestyle.
BIF
The abbreviation BIF stands for “Bisexual Female.” When you see this abbreviation used in swinger ads or profiles, it means that the woman enjoys having sex with both men and women.
BIM
The abbreviation BIM stands for “Bisexual Male.” When you see this abbreviation used in swinger ads or profiles, it means that the man enjoys having sex with both men and women.
ISO
When a swinger is writing a swingers ad or creating a swingers profile, they usually list what they are personally searching for. When you see the abbreviation ISO, it stands for “In Search Of.”
ONS
If a swinging couple or single is interested in “one night stands,” you may see it abbreviated as ONS.
FWB
This is a popular one with swingers. FWB stands for “Friends With Benefits.” Many swingers like to make friends they can socialize with as well as have sex with. These are friends with benefits.
On the other hand, some swingers only want sexual encounters and do not want to do things outside of the bedroom with the swingers they have sex with.
WLTM
You may see the abbreviation WLTM in some swinger ads and profiles. You may also see it in swinger chat rooms.
The abbreviation WLTM stands for “Would Like To Meet.”
DTF
If you have been to a few swingers clubs I am sure you have seen blue dot or something similar on a name tag. This usually means that the person or couple is ready and willing to play.
The abbreviation DTF is similar and used in swinger ads, profiles and chat rooms. DTF stands for “Down To Fuck.”
RTS
Occasionally you may see the abbreviation RTS. It stands for “Real Time Sex.”
LTR
The abbreviation LTR is used occasionally in swinger ads and profiles by couples that have been together for a long time or are looking for couples that are in a long-term relationship.
LTR stands for “Long-Term Relationship” in case you did not already guess.
D/D Free or D&D Free or DDF
The abbreviations D/D Free, D&D, and DDF Free stand for “Drug and Disease Free.”
Keep in mind that someone saying this does not mean they are. Use your own judgment and practice safe sex. Personally, I would just ignore these abbreviations when I see them in a swingers ad or profile.
DF
The abbreviation DF means that the person or couple does not use illegal drugs. It stands for “Drug Free.”
SD
When you see the abbreviation SD in a swingers ad or profile, it is saying that the person or couple are social drinkers. SD stands for “Social Drinker.”
If you are not sure what a social drinker is, it’s someone that only drinks when in a social environment.
LD
When you see the abbreviation LD in a swingers ad or profile, it means that they are light drinkers. The abbreviation LD stands for “Light Drinker.”
A light drinker does not usually drink excessively.
NS
NS stands for “Non-Smoker.” You will see this abbreviation in swinger ads and profiles to let you know that they do not smoke.
HWP
The abbreviation HWP stands for “Height Weight Proportionate.” When you see this abbreviation in a swingers ad or profile they are stating that they may have some extra weight on them but they are not excessively overweight or underweight.
ASL or A/S/L
The abbreviations ASL and A/S/L are used in swinger ads, profiles and in chat rooms. They are short for age, sex, and location.
You may also see ASL? Formed as a question in chat rooms and on forums when asking for your age, sex and location.
VGL
You will see VGL used when reading swinger ads and profiles. The abbreviation means “Very Good Looking.” Well at least in their eyes. 🙂
BBW
The abbreviation BBW stands for “Big Beautiful Woman.” It’s used to refer to a pretty woman that is very full figured or overweight.
FFM or FMF
The abbreviations FFM and FMF refers to a sexual threesome between two females and a single male.
MFM or MMF
The abbreviations MFM and MMF refers to a sexual threesome between two males and one female.
SRS
The abbreviation SRS stands for “Same Room Sex.” Same room sex can refer to swapping, group play or bi-sexual play. Or a combination of all three that happen in the same room.
This term is used by many swingers that swap partners for sex but require for everyone to have sex in the same room.
DP
DP is the abbreviation for “Double Penetration.”
This is when a female is penetrated by two guys at the same time. It can be one vaginally and one anally. Or both guys could penetrate the girl in the same hole at the same time. Double vaginal and double anal.
69
This has to be one of the most favorite numbers a swinger has. It stands for a sex position where both participants are giving oral sex to each other.
BBC
You will see these letters used in swinger ads and profiles from time to time. The abbreviation BBC refers to “Big Black Cock.” When you see BBC in an ad or profile it is usually referring to the woman that enjoys having sex with well hung black men.
BDSM
BDSM refers to multiple fetishes. Bondage and discipline, dominance and submission and sadism and masochism.
BDSM covers a lot of fetishes that could take up an entire book or set of books to explain. So do some searching on BDSM to learn more.
The abbreviation BDSM stands for “Bondage, Discipline (or Domination), Sadism, and Masochism.”
B&D
The abbreviation B&D stands for “Bondage and Domination (or Discipline).”
Sub
The abbreviation Sub stands for “Submissive.”
Dom
The abbreviation Dom refers to a “Dominate Male.”
Domme
The abbreviation Domme refers to a “Dominate Female.”
