It seems that finding a single woman, also known as a unicorn, for a threesome is not that easy. It may even seem impossible. Well, there are ways that a couple can find a single woman for a threesome if you look in the right places.

Let’s start off by giving a quick answer to the question: How do you find a single woman for a threesome?

To find a single woman for a threesome, you need to look in the right places and approach a girl correctly. The places to look for single girls are swingers club, swinger parties, meet and greets, swinger websites and several more places that are easier.

If you want to learn about the different places, you can meet women for threesomes, including some places that are much easier, then read on.

How to Find a Single Woman (Unicorn) for a Threesome

Before we explore all the places where you can meet single women for a threesome, ask yourselves the following.

Are we going to look for a straight female to join us, or a bisexual female? Or perhaps a female that is bi-curious?

The answer to those questions should be kept in mind while out on the hunt for that illusive unicorn, the single female that will sexually play with couples.

Finding Single Women for a Threesome at Swingers Clubs

Let’s start off with what would seem the easiest place to find a single woman (Unicorn) for a threesome. You would think the easiest place would be at a swingers club. Well, a swingers club is actually one of the hardest places to find a single female that both of you will like and want to have sex with.

Yes, you will most likely find several single women at a swingers club. But think about how many other couples are looking for that elusive unicorn also.

Another thing to consider is that not all single women at a swingers club are looking for someone to have sex with. Many only come to the club for socializing, dancing and having fun.

You will also see some single females that came with a couple. They are usually there to play with the couple that brought them.

Yes, you can find a single woman to have a threesome with at a swingers club, but it’s a rare event.

Now, one way to meet a single woman at a swingers club is through other couples. Ask around and see if any couples have single female friends that are in the lifestyle that they can introduce you to.

On occasion, you can find a couple that each partner plays alone. They may be difficult to find, but not impossible. Don’t be afraid to ask a couple if they ever play alone. If they say no, drop the subject and don’t get pushy.

Finding Single Women for a Threesome at a Swingers House Party

Many single women prefer to go to private house parties instead of swingers clubs. So, if you are looking for that single woman unicorn, a private swingers house party may be a better place to look than a swingers club.

Talk with other couples in the swinger lifestyle and get yourself invited to a few private house parties.

Just remember, you are a guest in their home and that it’s a privilege to get invited.

When you arrive to a private swingers house party, have the host introduce you to all of the guests.

If you are introduced to any single females that interest the two of you, make sure you have the female partner make friends with them. The more single females you become friends with, the better your chances of one or more of them being interested in a threesome with the two of you.

Don’t be pushy. Get to know the single females at the party and start dropping hints that the two of you are interested in them sexually. If any of them starts flirting back, then ask if they would be interested in a threesome. If they say no, drop the subject.

They could be interested in a threesome after they get to know the two of you better. So, don’t burn any bridges because they don’t want to have sex with the two of you right now.

Finding Single Women for a Threesome at Swinger Meet and Greets

If your area holds swinger meet and greets at local bars or other venues, take advantage of them.

You can find single women for a threesome at swinger meet and greets. These are a lot less pressure than swinger parties and clubs. You will find that a lot more single women attend meet and greets.

Do exactly what a meet and greet is intended for. Mingle with everyone and get to know them. The idea here is to make friends. Don’t propose a threesome to a single female at these events unless the three of you really hit it off and a lot of flirting is going on.

Another good thing about the swinger meet and greets is if you meet a single female at one of them and later see her at a swingers club, it makes it a lot easier to approach her since she already has met the two of you.

Finding Single Women for a Threesome on Swinger Websites

Single females can be found on swinger websites that are interested in meeting couples.

Keep in mind when thinking about sending a message to a single girl that has a profile that interests you, that she is most likely receiving a ton of propositions from couples and single males. Don’t expect her to respond to your message if you have not already met her at a club or in an online swingers chat room.

The best way to approach single women on swinger websites is to meet them in a chat room on the website. Once the three of you have chatted and seem to vibe well together, you can then send a private message to her that has a better chance of being replied too.

Another way to meet single women on online swinger sites is to use the chat rooms to find out who is going to a specific club or meet and greet. Arrange to say hi to them at the club or event.

When at an event, if you meet a single woman, ask her if she has a profile on any online swinger site. If she does, exchange usernames. And then send her a private, nice to have met you, type of message.

Finding Single Women for a Threesome on a Social Media Website

Social media sites like Facebook and MeWe have swinger groups that you can join. They are a great place to meet other swingers online including single females.

Whatever you do, don’t just start sending friend requests to single females without first getting their permission. When you are participating in a discussion post and you are chatting back and forth with a single female and getting to know them a little, then ask if it’s OK to send them a friend request or a private message.

If they say no, respect that. They may ask you if they can send you a friend request or private message after they get to know you better.

These types of groups are great for finding out where other swingers are going and places they enjoy.

If you see a group going to a bar or other venue and they are asking who else is going, by all means, raise your hand and go. It will be a great opportunity to meet any single females that are going that you have chatted with.

Finding Single Women for a Threesome at Bars and Nightclubs

Finding single women for a threesome at bars and nightclubs sometimes is a lot easier than finding them at swingers clubs. One of the main reasons is that a lot more single females go to bars and nightclubs than swingers clubs.

It’s not just swingers that enjoy alternative sex lifestyles. Many people both male and female have fantasies of having sex with more than one person. Most just keep their fantasies to themselves.

I’m not going to go into detail on how to pick someone up in a bar since you can find several detailed articles on this subject on this website.

What I will cover is the basics on how a couple can meet and bring up the subject of a threesome to a single girl at a bar or nightclub.

If the two of you see a girl that both of you are interested, it’s usually easier if the female partner approaches her in a normal way she would use meeting any girl.

Once she has talked to her for a bit, and if they hit it off, she can invite her back to your table to have a drink.

After the introductions are out of the way and the three of you have been talking, you can slowly move the subject to sex.

If she seems to be very open-minded, you can then bring up how the two of you have always been interested in trying a threesome but find it hard to find a third both of you get along with and trust.

Just follow her lead depending on how she is responding to the conversation.

Even if she does not seem interested in going home with the two of you, the next time you see her out, she will be easy to approach. She may also be interested in a threesome down the road. Just don’t push.

Finding Single Women for a Threesome in Your Circle of Friends

Now, let’s move on to easier ways to find a single woman for a threesome. The method I am going to discuss does need to be done carefully though.

What I am going to talk about is finding a single woman for a threesome in your circle of existing friends. Think about how many single women the two of you are already friends with. Do any of them sexually interest the two of you?

Keep in mind that what we are exploring is single females that are currently friends with both of you.

Invite her over for dinner and a movie, or out for drinks. After the three of you have been having a good time, you can direct the conversation to sexual topics. Talk about each other’s fantasies, or who each of you would like to have sex with if there were no strings attached.

When it feels right to propose a threesome to her, do it in a joking way to see how she reacts. It may be easier to do this by the guy leaving the room to go to the bathroom or get more drinks. Then the female partner can start joking around with your friend about threesomes.

Another option is to invite her to a girls only night out. This one can actually work better without the male partner being around. Girls have a tendency to talk to each other about subjects they would be too shy to talk about around a guy.

If you get her to agree to a threesome, the two of you can either go back home where the guy is or call the guy to meet the two of you.

Finding Single Women for a Threesome in Your Female Partners Friends

Most couples have mutual friends and people only one of them are friends with.

If your female partner has girlfriends, find out if she feels the two of you would be interested in for a threesome.

If she does have a friend that fits the bill, she can ask her out for a girls only night on the town.

She can then move their conversation to sex. Later in the night, she could then joke about her coming home and helping you surprise her guy.

Without the guy around, it’s a lot easier for two girls to talk about sexual escapades and fantasies.

Just don’t push her. You don’t want to lose a friend over it. Plus, she may warm up to the idea down the road.

Finding Single Women for a Threesome in Friends of Friends

If you have friends that are open-minded, make sure you let them know that you are looking for a girl for a threesome.

Ask them if they have any female friends that seem like they might be a little sexually open-minded to introduce the two of you to them.

Always make it known to friends that are open-minded what you are looking for. The more friends that know about your lifestyle, the more likely you will meet a single female that wants to have a threesome with the two of you. Possibly, even on a continuing basis.