Hotwifing can benefit both the wife and the husband. If you are not sure what hotwifing or the hotwife lifestyle is, check out the article What Exactly Is a Hotwife first. Then come back here and find out some of the many benefits of the hotwife lifestyle.
So, what are the benefits of hotwifing?
You will discover that hotwifing has many benefits. These benefits can range from a more open relationship to benefiting from exploring and having more sexual encounters outside the marriage. Hotwifing, as you will soon see, has many benefits for both the wife and the husband in the lifestyle.
Before we begin exploring many of the benefits of living the hotwife lifestyle, let me mention a few caveats first.
You need to know that the hotwife lifestyle can enhance an already strong relationship. But it can destroy a weak relationship. If the hotwifing interests the two of you, make sure you have a strong relationship before starting down the hotwife lifestyle road.
The next caveat that you need to know, is that we will be discussing the hotwife lifestyle. Not the cuckolding lifestyle. These are two different lifestyle dynamics that sometimes do overlap. Cuckolding is more about humiliating and degrading the male. Hotwifing is not. It actually empowers both the female and the male.
Hotwifes get to experience things most married women can’t. Let’s now dive in and take a look at some of the many benefits that a hotwife lifestyle can bring to the wife and the husband.
Create Experiences You Can Share
The hotwife lifestyle can create more experiences than you could possibly imagine. Hotwifing can give you memorable experiences that include: hunting for hot single guys, dating, seducing, being seduced, sex encounters, and more.
These very intimate experiences shared between you and your partner can lead to better communication between the two of you. These new experiences can also be used to ramp up the heat in the bedroom, or even used as foreplay.
Just imagine being able to share sexual experiences with each other without fear of jealousy. In fact, sharing your hotwife experiences can lead to both of you getting very horny and ready to have your own fun in the bedroom together.
Feel More Sexually Desirable
Who doesn’t like to feel sexually desirable? Hotwifing can make the woman feel a lot more sexually desirable just by seeing just how many other men besides her partner wants to sleep with her. It’s a great ego boost for her. It can also be a huge turn on for her partner seeing and knowing how much other men find her attractive and extremely sexually desirable. It’s a win-win for both of you.
When anyone starts to feel more sexually desirable, they also tend to start taking much better care of themselves. They also tend to start dressing a little sexier, and work on their appearance to be even more sexually desirable. This alone could lead to her feeling and looking younger. Who does not want to keep looking great as they age? Plus, when someone feels sexually attractive and desirable, they tend to be a much happier person.
The Total Freedom to Flirt
Most couples stop flirting when they marry. Or at least hide their flirting from their spouse. With a hotwife relationship, flirting is not only allowed, but also encouraged by the husband. Hotwifing gives you the freedom to enjoy flirting again. You never have to suppress an urge to flirt for fear of upsetting your partner.
Just imagine the fun you can have flirting and being flirted with. Even if your partner is with you. Flirting is a great ego boost for the woman in the hotwife lifestyle.
Most men also love to see their partner flirting and being flirted with. It’s an ego boost for him as well. Looks like we have another win-win situation.
Bring Back First Date Excitement
Remember back when you were dating, and you met someone new? Remember the excitement and butterflies you felt when you went out with someone new for the first time? Remember not knowing what was going to happen on that first date? How about the excitement of having sex with them for the first time?
A hotwife gets to continue having first date excitement over and over. Even though she is happily married. Not a bad benefit of being a hotwife.
Many hotwife husbands even help them get ready and dressed up sexy for their dates. The husband knows if she has a good time, the next time the two of them have sex, it’s going to be a lot more intense.
Experience New and Exciting Places
One great benefit hotwifing brings the woman is that she gets to go to new exciting places and locations as often as she wants. Can you imagine going on a date to a restaurant you have never eaten at? Then the next day going out with another guy that takes you yachting. Then the following week going out with another guy to a fancy hotel.
Hotwifes can experience all types of sexual adventures. You could be having sex in an expensive hotel room one day, on a yacht the next day, in the bathroom of a club on another day, on the beach at night, and other locations you may have never even thought about.
Removing Society’s Leash
Society has brainwashed us to believe what general society wants us to believe. This includes how we act and what we do in the bedroom. Society tells us what we should and should not do, regardless of what we think as individuals.
Hotwifing can help you and your partner to cut the short leash society has tied around your necks. The two of you get to be naughty and do what society sees as taboo. Bucking the system and doing what you want consensually in the bedroom can be a liberating experience.
Freedom to Explore Even Your Deepest Kinks
The hotwife lifestyle can give you the freedom to explore even your deepest kinks. You may have a kink that you want to try but your partner does not. A hotwife can explore her kinks with other guys, or even women.
You may even think you may enjoy a specific kink, but don’t want to share that with your husband until you know that you really do enjoy it. You could experiment with someone else to see if you like it or hate it. If you like it, surprise your partner with the knowledge that you found a new kink that you would like to explore with them.
Boost Both of Your Sex Drives
The hotwife lifestyle has many benefits but one stands out a little more than the others for most couples. Hotwifing can boost both of your sex drives.
Most couples notice that after they have been together for a long time, they tend to have sex the same way day after day. This leads then into a sex rut. Then they notice that their sex drives have dropped significantly from boredom.
Hotwifing can bring back the sexual tension in both of you. It can also increase sexual anticipation. It also brings the two of you closer sexually by sharing her experiences, planning new ones, and having fun with hotwife challenges and dares.
Sexual tension can also rise when the male partner helps her get ready for a date. You both start building excitement about the reclaiming sex the two of you may have later. We will discuss more on reclaiming sex later in this article.
The bottom line is that you both build more sexual attraction to each other and start exploring new exciting sexual acts again.
Husband Can Experience Compersion
The hotwife lifestyle provides several ways that the husband can feel compersion. If you don’t know what compersion is, it’s basically you get enjoyment from watching someone else get enjoyment. Many men love seeing or just hearing about their partner getting enjoyment from having sex with another person.
The male partner can feel compersion several ways. He can feel compersion from his female partner telling him what she did on her date with another man, or woman.
He can also feel compersion from watching his female partner enjoying sex with someone else. Many times, the man watches for a while and then joins in turning her experience into a threesome.
Bring Excitement Back to Your Bedroom
Hotwifing can bring excitement back to your bedroom. Your sex with each other usually takes on a totally new life. It can become deeper and more intense. It also can become a lot more varied, bringing variety back to your bedroom.
The wife learns more ways to pleasure a man, while the husband learns new sexual things that the wife discovers she loves from other sex partners. Both partners take on a renewed interest in sex and often start searching out new ways to bring sexual pleasure to each other.
Experience Passionate Reclaiming Sex
Reclaiming sex is when the man has sex with his female partner after she has had sex with another man. Many find this type of sex to be raw, intense, and very passionate. The man is reclaiming her as his wife or partner.
The woman receives extra benefit by seeing the passion in her male partner, and also gets to have great sex multiple times with multiple partners in the same day.
Experience and Learn New Sexual Techniques
Just about everyone has a signature sex move. A hotwife gets to experience sex techniques from just about as many men as she wants. Some of these sex techniques she may find that she really enjoys. These techniques can be brought back to her bedroom and taught to her partner.
Can Bring You and Your Partner Closer Together
The hotwife lifestyle can bring you and your partner closer together. It opens your marriage to more intimate talks and explorations. You’ll find that the two of you start talking about your deeper fantasies that you have been afraid of bringing up.
You may also find that the two of you have become much more than lovers. You could find the two of you building a very close friendship. This alone can lead the two of you towards sharing more and more with each other.
Builds Deeper Trust and Openness
As your hotwife lifestyle progresses, you will find that the two of you become more open with each other, and a stronger trust builds between the two of you.
The two of you become more open and able to talk about more subjects you either shied away from or were afraid to talk about because of the fear of judgment or possibly offending your partner.
Can you imagine having a relationship with no secrets, no worry of cheating, and not suppressing your desires? The hotwife lifestyle may be your ticket.
Can Bring out the Adventurous Side in Her
I have saved the best benefit of hotwifing for last. I’m talking directly to the men with this one. So, listen up. Hotwifing can bring out the sexually adventurous side in your wife, that she has been suppressing, or never knew she had.
The longer the two of you are in the hotwife lifestyle, you’ll notice that she becomes a lot more experimental and willing to try new sexual things. This adventurous attitude also seems to spill outside the bedroom into other aspects of your life together.
Haven’t you deep down inside wished that your wife or girlfriend was a lot more sexually adventurous? The hotwife lifestyle may help you to get your wish. If this article has intrigued you, explore the other articles about the hotwife lifestyle we have in our swinger magazine.