Throwing a swinger party can be fun, exciting, and extremely stressful. How will you keep the party guests entertained? Will you have enough food for everyone? What about play areas? Have you set up enough space for swinger playtime? I’m sure you have had many more questions run through your head when planning a swinger party.
One situation many swinger party hosts run into is getting the party started. I’m not talking about getting people to socialize. I’m talking about getting all the wild sex started. This can be especially difficult if most party guests are either new to swinging or are on the shy side. Some swinger parties even just fizzle out.
So, you need a plan to get the play areas full of hot and horny party guests before the night slips away. Well, here are several hot swinger sex games to get the party going strong. Check them out and pick one or two to play at your next swinger lifestyle party.
Swinger Hidden Object Hunt
This swinger party game is all about being the fastest to find objects that are hidden on other players. This game is usually played girls versus guys and consists of a lot of unintentional and intentional groping. The group that has the fastest time locating the hidden object or objects is declared the winner. The member of the winning group that has the fastest time, is declared the MVP of the game and can be treated to some type of reward.
Materials Needed: To play this swinger party game, all you need besides horny players is a blindfold, and objects that can be hidden on people. The objects need to be something that can be identified by touch alone. They also need to be small enough to hide on a person. The smaller the objects, the more exciting the game can become. You will also need a way to time each round of game play, some slips of paper with players names written on them, and two containers to place the slips of paper in.
Some suggestions for small objects to hide would be, a spoon, a die, a small sex toy, a golf ball, a marble, a coin, and a rubber band. Just make sure any object you choose does not have any sharp edges or would not be safe placing against the skin or possibly in a body cavity.
Game Setup: You need to divide the group of players into two teams. Usually, this game is played girls versus the guys. But, depending on the players sexual preferences, could be divided up anyway you choose. Both teams need to have the same number of players.
Once you have created the two teams, each team member writes their name on a slip of paper and drops it into the team’s drawing container.
All of the objects that will be used during the game, should be laid out on a table or floor so everyone can see them.
Select the team that will go first by tossing a coin, rolling a die, drawing straws, or any other way you have available.
Game Play: Each team takes turns being the hiders and hunters. The team that will be seeking, draws a name out of the container to determine the player on their team that will be hunting for the hidden object. The team member whose name was drawn is blindfolded, and their name set aside.
The hiding team then draws a name out of their container to determine who the object will be hidden on and places it back in the container. That player selects the object to be hidden and their team members decide where to hide it on their person. This location can be anywhere the team wants to hide it. But first they hold up the object so the hunting team can see it. The hunting team then tells the blindfolded member what object they will be hunting.
After the object has been hidden, the blindfolded person is escorted safely to the middle of the room. The players of the hiding team then form a circle around the blindfolded player.
A timer is started, and the blindfolded team member is told to find the hidden object. The hunter then attempts to find the object as quickly as they can. The blindfolded player is allowed to search the hiding team’s members however they want. Once the blindfolded player finds the hidden object, the timer is stopped, and their time is recorded.
Each team takes turns being the hiders and hunters until everyone’s name has been drawn out of both containers as hunters.
The finish times are then checked, and the winning team and MVP are determined and awarded any prizes determined before game play started.
Game Options: Here are several game options that can make the game more interesting.
- The blindfolded hunter can be nude.
- More than one object can be hidden on the hiding players.
- You could hide multiple objects on a single player.
- You could require that more than one object be found.
- The game could optionally be played in a dark room without the blindfold.
Swinger Jenga
This game is based off an old-time classic game named Jenga. Jenga is basically a game where players remove wooden tiles from a randomly stacked group of tiles. The object is to remove tiles without any of the tower falling over. This game is played using the same rules as regular Jenga, except that someone that knocks part of the tower over must perform a specific action. With this being a swinger version of Jenga, actions could be stripping, performing a sex act, etc.
Materials Needed: All you need to play this game is a Jenga game and a group of swingers that are ready to get the party started.
Game Setup: One player must build the Jenga tower. Just like in the regular Jenga game, the person that builds the tower removes the first tile. Of course, just like in regular Jenga, players can only remove tiles that are below the top row of the tower.
Game Play: Each player takes turns removing tiles until the tower partially falls over. The player that partially knocked over the tower must perform an action. Once they have performed the action, they must rebuild the tower and remove the first tile. Game play continues as long as players want to play.
Possible Game Actions: Here is a list of possible swinger Jenga game actions.
- Player removes all clothing.
- Player removes one article of clothing.
- Player performs oral sex on one or more players.
- Player must choose one other player and foreplay with them for 2 minutes.
- Etc.
Game Options: Here are some game options to make swinger Jenga even more exciting.
- Create cards with different sexual actions written on them. The person that knocks over the tower must draw a random card to determine what they should do.
- If everyone is nude, the person that knocks over the tower must be the center of sexual attention of all other players for 5 minutes.
I’m sure you can think of all types of other actions to make the game even more exciting at your next swinger party.
Old Fashion Strip Poker Swinger Style
I’m not sure I have ever heard about anyone that did not know what strip poker was. A good old fashion game of strip poker can get the action going at just about any swinger party. Let’s just put a little swinger twist on this old-fashion game and raise the stakes to include a lot more than clothes.
Materials Needed: All you need to play strip poker is a deck of cards, poker chips, and a group of horny swingers. If you don’t have poker chips, you can use toothpicks, straws, or even pieces of paper.
Game Setup: Game setup for swinger strip poker is very easy. Simply decide on how many poker chips each player will start with. Pass out the poker chips, and then shuffle the cards. Select a player to be the first dealer. You can rotate players in order to be the dealer, or let the winner be the next dealer. Also, decide how many chips a piece of clothing is worth.
Game Play: The dealer should name the game of poker they will be playing and make sure everyone understands the poker game they chose. Deal the cards and play just like you are playing real poker. Place your bets using your available chips. If you run out of chips, you can exchange a piece of clothing for more chips.
Now here comes the swinger twist in the game. If you run out of clothing, you can also bet sexual favors. If you lose the hand, the winner gets to redeem the sexual favor immediately or save it for later. But the sexual favor must be redeemed before the end of the swinger party.
The game is played for as long as you have players that want to continue playing.
Game Options: Here are a few game options that could make playing even more exciting or enjoyable.
- A player could place a bet that they become the center of sexual attention of all other players for a set time limit if they lose the hand.
- You could create a deck of cards that have sexual favors written on them. The loser could draw a random card and give it to the player with the highest hand. That player can keep the card or give it to another player. These cards would be redeemed after the game.
- You could also play the game where the winner could on demand, pair off with the loser, exit the game, and go have sex together.
Just use your imagination to come up with other ideas that strip poker could be used at a swinger party to get the sex action going.
Swinger Sex Charades
A good game of charades usually turns out to be fun, high energy, and most of the time, funny. Let’s take good old-fashion charades and put a very sexual and swinger twist to it. If you are not familiar with the game of charades, let me briefly explain it to you.
Charades is a game played with teams. One team selects either a word or phrase to act out without talking. No one knows the word or phrase except the one team member that will be acting it out and the game host. They act out the word or phrase while their team members try to guess it. If their team guesses wrong, other teams get to try to guess the word or phrase. Once a team guesses wrong, they do not get to guess again unless all teams guess wrong. At that point the team members on the team that has the member acting it out get to try to guess again. The winner is the team that guesses correctly.
Now, let’s move on and put that swinger twist on the game.
Materials Needed: An imagination and optionally a list of sex-oriented words and phrases available.
Game Setup: You will need to select someone to be the game host. It will be their job to select a word or phrase for each team to act out as the game is played. You will need to divide the group of players into multiple teams. Be careful not to have too many teams or too many players on a team. I would recommend 3 or 4 teams consisting of 2 to 4 players each.
Game Play: Game play is fairly simple. Each team takes turns. The team that is up, selects one of their team members to be the actor. They get the sex word or sex phrase from the game host and act it out without talking. Their team gets to make the first guess. If they guess right, the game play goes to the next team. If they guess wrong, the other teams get to guess. If another team guesses correctly, they win the current round. If all teams guess wrong, game play continues with the original team getting to guess again.
The team that wins the round, gets to select one of the teams and remove an article of clothing from each of their team members. Game play then proceeds with the next team that is up.
Once all teams are nude, the team that has the last piece of clothing removed is up. They select a team member to be the actor and game play continues with this final round of game play.
The team that wins this final round, wins the game.
Game Options: Here are some options to make swinger sex charades a little more sexually exciting.
- The team that wins the game gets to select one of the other teams to be their sex slaves for an hour.
- The game could continue after everyone is nude, and each round winner gets to select one of the other teams to get sexual favors from for 1 or 2 minutes.
Just use your imagination and come up with other exciting rewards for winners of each round of game play. Plus, a very special reward for the overall game winners.
Swinger Never Have I Ever
Swinger never have I ever is a very easy and fun game to play at a swingers party. It requires nothing but a group of swingers that want to get to know each other better and have some sexy fun. Most people have heard of this game. Let’s put a swinger twist to it.
Materials Needed: The only thing needed to play swinger never have I ever is a group of swingers.
Game Setup: Get the group of players together in the same room or area.
Game Play: Select a player to start the game. Then move in a clockwise direction to select the next game player. When it’s someone’s turn, they make a true sexually oriented statement starting with “never have I ever.”
Let me give you a few examples of statements. Never have I ever had a threesome with two girls. Never have I ever had anal sex. Never have I ever had sex in public. I’ll assume you get the idea. Just keep the statements related to sex or swinging.
Once a player makes a statement, if any of the other players admit they have actually done the sexual action, they have to remove a piece of clothing. If nobody admits to the sexual action, the player has to remove a piece of clothing.
The game continues until everyone is nude. At that point the game could continue and if any players admit to a sexual action can perform that action with the person that said, never have I ever.
Game Options: Here are some game options that could really get the party started with swingers never have I ever.
- Players could say that they have never tried the action but would like too. This could lead to a lot of people finding others at the party that have the same sexual interests.
- You could get really wild and have everyone start off naked. Then give 30 second sexual favors to the player instead of removing clothes.
- You could reverse the game play and have the player say something sexual they actually have done instead.
Laugh and Get Stripped
This can be a fun game to play at a swingers party if you want to get everyone laughing. Basically, in laugh and get stripped, if you laugh, you’re going to get stripped naked.
Materials Needed: All you need are a willing group of swingers and anything that could make someone laugh. Funny videos, pictures, stories, jokes, etc. You will also need a stopwatch or timer.
Game Play: Select someone to be the first victim of the game. Set the timer or stopwatch for 3 minutes. Start the timer and try your best to make them laugh without physically touching them. If they laugh before the 3 minutes are up, the other party guests strip them naked. They have to remain nude until the game is over, or they pair off with someone else that is nude and go have sex.
Game Options: Here are a few options for this swinger game that could really get the heat up at the party.
- Anyone that laughs has to give oral sex to other players that have lost for the remainder of the game, or pair off to have sex. Each time the game moves to a new player, the nude losers have to switch to someone else to orally please.
- If the group is into BDSM, you could create a list of punishments and have each loser pull one of the punishments out of a hat. They then receive that punishment for laughing.
Swinger Party Twister
Got an old Twister game laying around? Pull it out for your next swinger party and add a swinger twist to its game play. This game can get a group of shy swingers into a full-blown orgy fairly quickly.
Materials Needed: All you need is a group of swingers and a Twister game.
Game Setup: Setup the twister mat on the floor, or a large bed. Designate someone else that is not actively participating in the game to be the spinner. All players then get naked.
Game Play: The game spinner determines in what order the players will play. The first player steps up to the mat and the spinner spins the Twister spinner. They then tell the player what hand or foot to place on what colored dot. Once the current player is in position, each of the other players take their turn. Game play continues with the first player after all players have had a turn.
You should pretty much play by the original Twister rules.
This game continues until all players have quit or preferably when a wild orgy breaks out.
Game Options: Here is an interesting option for a twist on the game.
If a person’s face aligns with another person’s sex parts, they can suck, or lick the other player until one of them has to move to continue playing.
Swinger Style Spin the Bottle
This is a simple game that most people will already know how to play. But we will be putting a swinger twist on the original spin the bottle game. The original spin the bottle game usually stopped at just a little kiss. But not the wilder swinger version. What’s nice is this swinger party game does not take much setup to play.
Materials Needed: The only thing you need to play this game, besides a group of swingers is a bottle.
Game Setup: Have everyone sit in a circle either on the floor, or just around the room. The party host then selects the first person to play. Game play then proceeds clockwise.
Game Play: The current player spins the bottle. If the bottle points to a sexually compatible person, the player that spun the bottle gets to remove an article of clothing from the player that the bottle is pointing towards. If the bottle points at a player that is not sexually compatible with the spinner, the bottle is spun over and over until it does point to a sexually compatible player.
If the player the bottle points at is nude, the spinner gets to do whatever they want sexually with the player the bottle is pointing at for 30 seconds.
This game continues as long as two or more sexually compatible swingers want to play.
Game Options: Here are some interesting game options you can add to the game
- Each player wears a colored dot that let’s other players know if they are straight, bisexual, or bi-curious. This makes it easy to determine if the bottle points to a sexually compatible person.
- Once a player is totally nude, they become an available sex partner. Then if another totally nude player spins the bottle and it points to another sexually compatible player that is available, they pair off and go have sex.
This very simple game can easily get the swinger party in full gear. Give it a try at your next party.
