There are plenty of places that you can meet local swingers besides swinger clubs. In fact, a swingers club may not be your best option to meet swingers that live in your area.

So, let’s look at where to meet local swingers besides swingers clubs.

You can meet local swingers at bars, nightclubs, strip clubs and at special events. You can also meet local swingers at private swinger house parties. You can start your search for places to meet local swingers online on social media sites and swinger websites.

Let’s explore several ways and places to meet swingers that live in your area.

Where to Meet Local Swingers Besides Swinger Clubs

Let’s start off by discussing why swingers clubs may not be your best bet to meet local swingers. We will then move on and explore how to find places you can meet swingers that are local to you.

Then we will dive into the actual places to meet them and how to get invited to some of the private swinger events.

Why Swingers Clubs May Not Be the Best Place to Meet Local Swingers

Before we go over the best places to meet local swingers, let me quickly explain why swinger clubs are not the best place to meet local swingers.

Most swinger clubs draw large numbers of swingers to their events. The main problem is that many swingers travel far distances to attend the clubs’ events.

Since the crowd at swingers clubs contains a large number of swingers that do not live locally, it becomes harder to meet local swingers at swinger clubs.

They are a great place to meet swingers from all over, just not the best option to meet swingers local to your area.

Depending on where you live, you may have to travel to another area just to go to a swingers club.

Now that we have that out of the way, let’s look at how you can meet local swingers in your area.

Meet Local Swingers by Starting Online

One of the best ways to find and meet local swingers is to start your search online. The Internet has given swingers many ways to find each other.

Here is a list of places you can start your search for swingers that live local to you.

Social media sites like Facebook and MeWe have groups that have been created for swingers. Do a search on both social media sites for swinger groups. Join the larger more active ones as well as any you find that are local to your area.

You can also join swinger websites that have forums and chat rooms. These are also great places to find local swingers.

When reading the groups and forums, you want to keep an eye out for swingers mentioning that they plan to go to a specific bar or nightclub. They will usually try to get a group of swingers to go with them.

When you see a meet up near you, make sure you say hi to everyone in the chat or forum and let them know that you and your partner will be attending.

If you don’t see anyone mentioning local meet ups, ask if anyone knows of local bars or nightclubs where swingers hangout.

The more time you spend in these groups and forums, the more chances you will have of seeing someone going to a local place to meet other swingers.

Go to as many of these meet ups as you can. Some will have several couples attending while others may only have one or two other couples attending.

The more swingers you meet in person, the better chance of being invited to meet ups that are not necessarily mentioned online.

Meet Local Swingers at Private Swinger House Parties

Swinger private house parties are a great way to meet local swingers. But you need to get yourself invited to them.

One way to get invited to private swinger parties is to be active in the swinger groups and chats that we talked about before.

As you get out and meet swingers at meet ups and get to know them, you will find yourself being invited to private parties more and more.

Whenever you are invited, make sure you go. You will meet a lot of local swingers attending these private swinger parties.

Once you get to know a good number of swingers in your local area, you could consider throwing your own private swinger house party. If you do, ask the people you invite if they know any other swinger couples that might like to come.

Holding your own swinger private house party is a great way to meet swingers in your local area. Plus, you get to decide who you want to invite.

Meet Local Swingers by Attending Local Swingers Meet and Greet

Many clubs, swinger websites, and couples hold swinger meet and greets. These are usually held on a monthly or weekly basis.

Swinger meet and greets are great events to meet local swingers at.

These meet and greets are usually well planned and are typically held at local bars, nightclubs, strip clubs, and hotel banquet rooms. You can also find local swinger meet and greets being held at swimming pools.

You can find these by looking for notices about them in the social media swinger groups and on the forums of swinger websites.

You can also find them advertised on the websites of nearby swingers clubs.

When you go to one, ask other swingers what other meet and greets they attend. You can find out about the less advertised meet and greets that are held in the area.

Meet and greets are a good low-pressure atmosphere to meet other swingers. Swinger meet and greets are also great for first time swingers that are interested in meeting other likeminded couples.

Meet Local Swingers by Holding a Local Swingers Meet and Greet

If you can’t find any swinger meet and greets in your area, get very active in the social media swinger groups and on the swinger website forums.

Then once you are known by a good group of swingers that live in your area, setup a swinger meet and greet.

Pick a bar, nightclub or strip club in your area to hold a swinger meet and greet at. You can make it a formal one where you arrange with the venue to have an area roped off for the meet and greet, or you can setup a casual one where everyone just meets at the location.

I would try to find a local bar that is not too loud. You want everyone to be able to actually have conversations at a comfortable level.

The first several swinger meet and greets you hold, don’t get upset if the turnout is very low. A good meet and greet takes time to attract regular attendees. Over time your advertising of your event will get better and attract more guests.

Meet Local Swingers by Expanding Your Circle of Swinger Friends

Once you start meeting other local swingers, make sure to ask them to introduce you to other local swingers that they know.

This is a great way to expand your circle of swinger friends that live in the same area that you do.

Never miss an opportunity to make new swinger friends. The more you know, the more enjoyable the swinger lifestyle can be.

Let me leave you with one final thought. Always respect the privacy of the local swingers you meet. Don’t bring up swinging subjects with them out in public if you run into any of them while out and about in town. Save those conversations for appropriate times and places.