Wife swapping in the swinger lifestyle has many benefits for both partners. If you are new to swinging or are just thinking about swinging, you may not know the many benefits that come with wife swapping.
So, let’s take a quick look at some of the best benefits you and your partner can get from swapping wives with another couple from time to time.
Some of the main benefits of wife swapping are:
- Wife Swapping Gives You the Excitement of First Time Sex With Different Partners
- Wife Swapping Allows You to Discover New Sexual Things You Enjoy
- Wife Swapping Lets You Break out of Routine Sex
- Wife Swapping Lets You Learn New Sex Techniques to Use on Your Partner
- Wife Swapping Gives You a Way to Do Sexual Things Your Partner Doesn’t Like or Enjoy
- Wife Swapping Gives You an Outlet to Explore Your Fantasies
- Wife Swapping Lets You Experience the Adrenalin Rush Over and Over
- Wife Swapping Can Make You Feel Sexually Desirable Again and Again
- Wife Swapping Can Add Excitement or Feelings of Doing Something Taboo
- Wife Swapping Can Be Just Plain Fun and Pleasurable
Let’s move on and look at these many benefits of wife swapping in more detail.
Wife Swapping in the Swinger Lifestyle Has Many Benefits
Now that you have a good idea of some of the benefits of wife swapping, it’s time to explore them in more detail.
Wife swapping can be done with the four of you having sex in the same room. Or it can be done where each of you go to separate rooms to have sex with the other couple’s partner. I’ll save the benefits of same room and different room sex for another article.
Let’s dig in and start with the excitement of first-time sex with someone.
Wife Swapping Gives You the Excitement of First Time Sex With Different Partners
Wife swapping can give both of you that excitement of first-time sex with different partners.
Remember the excitement you have each time you have sex with someone for the first time? That nervousness you feel not knowing what to expect?
Wife swapping allows you to have that feeling anytime you want. Swingers can, if they desire, have access to as many new partners as they want.
Having sex with someone and not knowing what they will do next lets you experience sex in ways that can’t be predicted.
Now, let’s look at how you can discover new sexual things you enjoy.
Wife Swapping Allows You to Discover New Sexual Things You Enjoy
Wife swapping gives you the opportunity to discover new sexual acts and sexual things you enjoy. When having sex with a new partner, they tend to do different things during sex. Some you may not like, but some you will discover that you really enjoy.
Take your time and really pay attention to how each partner has sex with you differently. Mentally note the things they do that you really enjoy. You can always tell your partner what they did that you liked so you can try it together.
The next benefit we will look at is the ability to break out of routine sex.
Wife Swapping Lets You Break out of Routine Sex
Let me start by saying that there is absolutely nothing wrong with routine sex. The longer a couple is together, the more they tend to have sex a particular way over and over.
You and your partner’s sex routine can still be extremely enjoyable. But adding variety into your sex life can add even more enjoyment to your sex. Remember, variety is the spice of life.
Wife swapping lets you break out of routine sex and supplement it with a wide variety of ways to have sex.
We will be looking at learning new sex techniques next.
Wife Swapping Lets You Learn New Sex Techniques to Use on Your Partner
Getting tired of the using the same sex techniques over and over? Want to learn some new exciting sex techniques you can use on your partner?
Wife swapping gives you ways to learn all types of new sex techniques that you can try on your partner.
If you wife swap on a regular basis, you will never run out of sexual technique ideas you can learn and bring back to you and your partner’s sexual encounters.
Another benefit of wife swapping is getting to do things your partner does not enjoy.
Wife Swapping Gives You a Way to Do Sexual Things Your Partner Doesn’t Like or Enjoy
Do you have a fetish, sexual act, or sexual technique you love but your partner does not like or enjoy?
Wife swapping gives you a way to still enjoy these sexual experiences while your partner enjoys what they sexually like.
You can find other couples that have a suitable partner that also enjoys the same sex acts or fetish that you do. You just simply swap partners for the night.
You benefit, and your partner benefits.
Fantasy exploration is another benefit of wife swapping. Let’s explore that now.
Wife Swapping Gives You an Outlet to Explore Your Fantasies
Have a fantasy that you are into, and your partner is not? Or do you have a fantasy that your partner just can’t fill? How about a fantasy that you want to try but you need a partner that is experienced in the fantasy to try it?
Here is an example. Let’s say you have a fantasy of being disciplined but your partner does not have any experience inflicting pain. To safely explore this fantasy for the first time, you would need someone that has experience in disciplining without taking it to the point of injury.
If you find that you enjoy a particular fantasy you have had, you can get the person you experienced it with to show your partner how to give you the same experience.
Just find a couple that has experience in your fantasy and swap partners for the night.
Sex for the first time can give you an adrenalin rush. Let’s explore how wife swapping can give that rush to you next.
Wife Swapping Lets You Experience the Adrenalin Rush Over and Over
That adrenalin rush you feel from thinking about having sex with someone for the first time can happen over and over. When you are about to have sex with someone for the first time, you tend to get scared, excited and a little outside your comfort level. When that happens, the adrenalin kicks in a little.
Wife swapping lets you experience that adrenalin rush each time you have sex with someone for the first time.
Have you ever noticed that when you and your partner have sex with someone else you have a tendency to talk about it excitedly with each other? That can happen over and over with wife swapping.
Now, let’s look at a big benefit that wife swapping can give you. That feeling of being desirable.
Wife Swapping Can Make You Feel Sexually Desirable Again and Again
You know that your partner thinks you are sexually desirable, but it just does not make you feel super sexy anymore. This is totally normal for couples that have been together for some time.
But when you have someone new want to have sex with you, that feeling of being sexually desirable comes racing back. The more people that want to have sex with you, the sexier you feel.
This alone, can make you notice that your partner does in fact find you sexy and highly desirable and bring the two of you closer. You start believing your partner again when they tell you how sexy you are.
Wife swapping can make you feel highly sexually desirable again and again. It’s nice to know that others are sexually attracted to you.
Like to have naughty or taboo thoughts? Let’s move on to how wife swapping can give you those thoughts and feelings.
Wife Swapping Can Add Excitement or Feelings or Doing Something Taboo
Like that feeling of being a little naughty or doing something that some people consider taboo? Many times, that taboo feeling can make sex more exciting and more fulfilling.
Wife swapping can give you that excitement and feeling of doing something most people would never do and consider taboo.
Looking for something the two of you can do that is just plain fun?
Wife Swapping Can Be Just Plain Fun and Pleasurable
One of the biggest benefits that wife swapping can provide is that it’s just plain fun and extremely pleasurable.
Having sex for recreational purposes can be a very enjoyable activity. Having sex with new partners as often as you want can be even more fun and exciting.
Wife swapping in the swinger lifestyle has many benefits and being just simply fun is one of the big ones.
If all of this sounds interesting to you, check out our article 9 Reasons Why Couples Should Try the Swinging Lifestyle.
