There are so many benefits of being swingers, it would take me several book volumes to cover them all. And I am sure I would miss plenty of the benefits.
Let’s start off by listing 21 benefits of being a swinger and then explore them in detail.
Here they are in no particular order. 21 benefits of being a swinger.
- You Never Get Sexually Bored
- Swingers Get to Meet and Make New Friends
- Swingers Get to Socialize With Like Minded People
- Swinging Gives You the Opportunity to Talk About Sex
- Swingers Get to Explore Their Sexuality
- Swinging Gives You the Opportunity to Express Your Sensuality in Different Ways
- The Swinger Lifestyle Is Great for Bisexuals
- The Swinger Lifestyle Is Great for Bi-Curious
- Swingers Can Explore and Learn About Their Sexual Interests Easily
- Swingers Can Experiment With Different Sex Acts, Styles, and Fetishes
- Swingers Can Let Their Hair Down Without Others Judging Them
- Swingers Can Act out Their Fantasies in a Much Safer Environment
- Female Swingers Get to Enjoy a Variety of Penis Sizes
- Swingers Can Receive Sexual Attention From Multiple People at the Same Time
- Swinging Makes It Easier for a Woman to Have Multiple Orgasms
- Swingers Can Participate in Sex Acts or Fetishes That Their Partner Does Not Enjoy
- Swinging Is a Group Participation Sport
- Swinging Is About Giving and Receiving Pleasure
- Swinging Can Enhance a Couples Relationship
- Swingers Get to Learn More About Their Partner
- Variety Is the Spice of Life in the Swinging Lifestyle
Now that we have had a quick look at 21 benefits of being swingers, let’s move on and look at each benefit a little closer.
21 Benefits of Being Swingers
Here are the 21 benefits of being a swinger in much more detail. Read through them and see if you can come up with more benefits of being swingers.
You Never Get Sexually Bored
Having the same sex over and over the same way may still be enjoyable and pleasurable. But repetition can bring boredom. Sex with the same person over time can become not as exciting as it was in the beginning. Again, still enjoyable and pleasurable but boring at times.
Swingers have access to a large number of sexual partners and sexual activities. Swinging couples can experience that newness and excitement that sex used to bring over and over together.
Swinging can also bring back spice to a couple’s sex life that can bring them closer together and actually add excitement to the sex they have together.
Swingers learn new sex techniques from other swingers and can add them to their own sexual activities they have alone with each other.
Even simply swapping wives for sex, swingers get to experience the thrill of first-time sex with someone as often as they like. If wife swapping piques your interest, read our article titled Wife Swapping in the Swinger Lifestyle Has Many Benefits.
As you can see, swingers never get sexually bored unless that’s what they want.
Swingers Get to Meet and Make New Friends
Looking to make new friends? Both single and couples? Going to swinger parties and events is a great way to meet new couples and singles with similar interests. Also, you will not have to worry that they will be judging your lifestyle choice.
You can easily meet these types of friends at a swinger party.
- Sexual partners only
- Friends with benefits
- Platonic friends
All three types of friends are easy to make in the swinging lifestyle.
You will meet amazing people in the swinging lifestyle. They are non-judgmental, non-fake, real, and raw as they come.
You can feel totally free to be yourself, flaws and all-around other swingers.
Swingers Get to Socialize With Like Minded People
Swinging gives you the opportunity to socialize with like-minded people. Swingers are very open-minded, and you will find that many like the exact same things you do. Not just in the bedroom, but outside the bedroom too.
When socializing with other swingers, you never have to candy coat anything. You also don’t have to be careful about what you say.
Swinging Gives You the Opportunity to Talk About Sex
Swinging gives you many opportunities to talk about sex with your partner and other swingers. You never have to be afraid of embarrassing someone by talking openly about sex.
So, if you enjoy sexual discussions, the swinging lifestyle can give you that opportunity anytime you want.
Swingers Get to Explore Their Sexuality
Swinging lets the two of you explore your sexuality in new and exciting ways. Swinging allows you to explore your own personal sexuality and explore your combined sexuality as a couple.
Many couples get in a rut by having the same sex the same way over and over. When you add other sexual partners into the mix, you discover new ways you can express your sexuality to each other.
Swingers tend to know more about their partners sexuality than non-swingers do. The more you know about your partners sexuality, the more you can please them.
Swinging Gives You the Opportunity to Express Your Sensuality in Different Ways
Swinging gives you an opportunity to express your sensuality anyway you desire. You can even discover more about each other’s sensuality from swinging. You can also learn new and exciting ways to express your sensuality to each other.
The Swinger Lifestyle Is Great for Bisexuals
If you or your partner is bisexual, the swinger lifestyle may be a perfect match for the two of you.
Swinging allows the bisexual partner to have sexual experiences with the same sex while still including their partner in the sexual activity.
You will find many couples that have a bisexual partner in the swinging lifestyle.
Another reason swinging is great if one of you is bisexual, is that you don’t deny your bisexual partners sexual desires.
You don’t need to form a permanent relationship just so your partner can explore their bisexuality. Unless that is what the two of you want.
Bisexuality makes great threesome opportunities that can be exiting and bring newness into a relationship.
The Swinger Lifestyle Is Great for Bi-Curious
Are you or your partner bi-curious? Swinging lets you explore your bisexual curiosity in a safe and nonthreatening manner. Limits can be set, and the same sex play can stop anytime you want. You can then resume male female sex for the rest of the encounter.
Maybe you just want to kiss another of the same sex. Or have another person of the same sex perform oral sex on you. Maybe later if you discover that you are bisexual you can return the favor.
The most important thing is to first discuss what you want to try with whomever you will be exploring your bisexual curiosity with. Of course, you should also discuss this with your partner.
Swingers Can Explore and Learn About Their Sexual Interests Easily
Many people don’t even know what their true sexual interests are. Simply because they have no way to experiment to find out.
Many times, it is difficult to explore your sexual interests, simply because you don’t really know what they are or have the opportunity to explore many different sexual activities.
Couples that swing have the opportunity to discover new sexual interests while sexually playing with other couples, groups or singles.
You could even discover something your partner really enjoys that you never knew. It very well could be your partner never knew they enjoyed it either. Swinging gives you this opportunity to experiment.
Learning the sexual interests of other couples can spark new desires in you and your partner. You can then explore those new interests alone or with other swingers.
You will find that swingers enjoy a lot wider variety of sex than non-swingers.
Swingers Can Experiment With Different Sex Acts, Styles, and Fetishes
Being in the swinger lifestyle allows you to easily experiment with different sex acts, sex styles, and sexual fetishes.
Have a sex act, sex style, or sexual fetish you think you would like to try? Find another couple or single that has experience with it and let them guide you.
By watching other couples, you will discover all types of sex acts, sex styles, and sexual fetishes you may have never learned about in the vanilla community.
Swingers Can Let Their Hair Down Without Others Judging Them
Like to let your hair down from time to time? Like to occasionally dance while grinding or playing with someone’s butt? Like to strip down to just your sexy panties and bra while in a large crowd?
How about enjoying or doing a striptease? How about some heavy foreplay or a group grope? Enjoy flashing others? Do you enjoy sexually teasing others for fun or to entice them to join you and your partner for sexual play?
I could go on and on, but I think you understand what I mean by letting your hair down.
Just try any of the above at a regular night club and you will most likely get thrown out or even arrested.
Swinger parties give a great and safe environment to let your hair down and just have fun. But don’t forget to find out their rules first, of course.
Swinging allows you an environment where you can express yourself without being judged.
Swingers Can Act out Their Fantasies in a Much Safer Environment
Have a fantasy the two of you would like to act out in real life? Or maybe just want to experiment with just a little? Swinging is a great way to act out or experiment with your fantasies in a much safer environment.
Like to role play? Have you fantasized about a little BDSM or bondage? Have a fantasy of watching your partner with another person or couple? Do you have a fantasy of all the attention being on you? Why not act out a gangbang fantasy?
Just look for other swinging couples or singles that would enjoy helping you act out one or more of your fantasies.
The swinging lifestyle gives you more opportunities to act out a fantasy.
Female Swingers Get to Enjoy a Variety of Penis Sizes
Guys don’t get all bent out of shape and defensive over this one. I’m sure you have no problem satisfying your partner sexually. But you would like her to be even more satisfied, wouldn’t you?
Are you a woman or does your female partner enjoy experiencing a range of different penis sizes? Or would she possibly enjoy having that option?
Swinging lets the woman enjoy different penis sizes to fit with her current sexual mood and desire.
Does she want a long stroke tonight? Does she want the full feeling a thick penis can give her tonight? Or does she want the gentleness of a smaller penis tonight? With swinging, she always has choices.
Swingers Can Receive Sexual Attention From Multiple People at the Same Time
Do you or your partner like to be the center of all the sexual attention? Or feel they may want to be? Have several people sexually pleasing you at the same time is a very popular fantasy of many people.
How would you like all hands, mouths and other body parts on you? Want to experience the excitement and intensity of having sex with multiple people at the same time? Like to experience the pleasures that only multiple people can give you?
Being a swinger gives you the opportunity to receive attention by more than one person at a time just about any time you want.
Swinging Makes It Easier for a Woman to Have Multiple Orgasms
Many women only dream of having multiple orgasms. But it takes so long to reach additional orgasms, most guys just don’t have the stamina to last the length of time needed.
At times, a man just can’t perform as long as a woman desires. This can lead to the woman not being fulfilled sexually and can bring stress to the man.
Being a swinger gives women the opportunity to take as long as they want or need to orgasm and have as many orgasms one after the other as they desire.
Once one man cums, another man or woman can continue the stimulation. Just arrange for as many couples or singles that the woman wants to experience.
Swingers Can Participate in Sex Acts or Fetishes That Their Partner Does Not Enjoy
Do you or your partner not enjoy a sexual act or fetish that the other one loves? Is your partner into domination but you are not into submission? What about light bondage? Does one partner enjoy it while the other is scared of it? Does your partner enjoy anal sex and you don’t want anything to do with it?
Being swingers lets you have your cake and eat it too. Come to think of it, does your partner have a food fetish and you don’t?
Being a swinger lets you find other couples or singles that enjoy the same sex acts and fetishes that you do. This takes the pressure off the partner that does not enjoy a specific sex act or fetish. They can be enjoying what they like while their partner is fulfilling his or her desires elsewhere.
Swinging Is a Group Participation Sport
Do the two of you enjoy group activities? Well, swingers get to participate in all types of group activities. Both inside and outside the bedroom.
Swingers have all types of events and get-togethers. Including sports, pool parties, travel trips and more.
Where else can you experience lots of nude sexy people having a great time in and out of the bedroom?
Swinging Is About Giving and Receiving Pleasure
The swinging lifestyle is all about giving and receiving pleasure through deep friendships, sexual relationships and even one-night stands.
Swinging allows the two of you to give and receive all types of pleasure in a nonjudgmental environment and lifestyle.
Swinging Can Enhance a Couples Relationship
Swinging, if done from a point of trust in your partner, can enhance your relationship. It can help each of you to open up to the other and talk about your individual fantasies and sexual desires. It helps you to become better and closer friends.
Swinging can give you new, exciting experiences to talk about with each other. This alone can help the two of you to build better communications with each other.
Swingers Get to Learn More About Their Partner
One of the biggest benefits that swinging can give a couple is the chance to learn more about their partner sexually.
You can watch your partner while they are having sex with multiple partners and observe what excites them or turns them on. What makes their eyes roll back in their heads in pure ecstasy. Pay close attention and you will learn a lot about your partners sexual likes and dislikes.
Many people learn that they really like something sexually that they have never even considered.
You can take what you learn about your partner and use it to build on your relationship and increase you and your partner’s sexual fulfillment.
Variety Is the Spice of Life in the Swinging Lifestyle
I am sure you have heard the saying; variety is the spice of life. This also holds true in the bedroom. If you find that you and your partner are having sex the exact same way every time, swinging could be the best thing to get variety back in your sex life.