Writing a great swingers ad or swingers profile is not that difficult if you know a few tricks. A great swingers ad or swingers profile grabs the attention of the type of swingers you are wanting to attract.
So, how do you write a great swingers ad or swingers profile?
Writing a great swingers ad or swingers profile boils down to writing an attention getting headline, and a detailed description about you and what you are looking for. Adding the right type and mix is also extremely important if you want your ad or profile to be responded too.
Let’s look at each of the elements that are part of a great swingers ad or swingers profile.
How to Write a Great Swingers Ad or Swingers Profile
Let’s go over each part of a swingers ad and swingers profile one at a time.
Most Swinger Ads and Profiles Never Get Any Responses
The vast majority of swinger ads and profiles never get any responses. Or they get a ton of inappropriate responses from desperate people that think they are swingers. This leads to disappointment and the belief that swinger ads and setting up profiles are a waste of time.
The real problem is most swinger ads and profiles are not designed to be found by site search features. Or they are not designed to draw the attention of the type of swingers you are looking for.
Most people do not have the time to browse hundreds or thousands of ads looking for couples they may be interested in meeting. You need to design your ad or profile to be easily found among the sea of mediocre ads and profiles.
Let’s now look at how to get your ad or profile to stand out and be noticed.
How to Get Your Swinger Ad or Profile Noticed
Your ad or profile needs to tell others all about yourself and at the same time stand out from the crowd of other ads and profiles.
Your swinger ad or swinger profile also needs to appear in search results when someone searches for swingers with your interests. You want to get it as high in the search results as possible.
So, let’s look at how to design and create a swingers ad and profile that will be easily found by other swingers looking for the same thing you are looking for.
The first thing someone sees is the headline of your swinger ad or profile. Let’s discuss the headline next.
Your Swingers Ad or Profiles Headline
The first thing we are going to look at is the headline. This is the most important part of your swinger ad or profile. If it does not excite interest in someone, they are not going to read the rest of your ad.
You will want to put a lot of thought into how you will be wording your headline.
The headline needs to say who you are and what you are looking for. Since length is limited for headlines, it needs to be to the point.
If you are new to swinging you should mention that in the headline.
If you can describe yourself in the same words you would use when looking for other couples, do so. You can then add “looking for same” at the end of the headline.
Keep in mind when writing your headline, it needs to attract the type of people you are looking for.
If you are into a fetish, it may be a good idea to mention the fetish in your headline also.
Take a look at other swinger ad headlines and note what catches your attention and what makes you click through to read the ad. These are most likely the same people you want to attract to your ad or profile.
Now let’s move on to the swinger ad or profile description.
Swingers Ad or Profile Description
Now let’s take a close look at the swingers ad or profile description. Also known as the body of the ad or profile. You are going to want your description to be long enough to tell everyone about you and your partner, but not so long that it bores people to read the entire description.
In your ad description you will want to include information about yourself and what you are looking for. You will want to also include your basic information like age, height, weight, race and location.
After describing your looks, you will want to include your experience with swinging. Don’t forget to mention the types of swinging you currently participate in. If you are only soft swing swingers, make sure you mention that.
If you have a body part you are proud of, mention it. Especially if you see other ads saying they are looking for that.
If you or your partner is bi-curious or bisexual, make sure you mention that too.
Next, you want to include what you are looking for. Be specific.
You will want to mention age ranges, body types, heights, etc.
Let people know in your ad or profile if you are looking for couples only, singles, bisexuals, etc.
Answer the following questions in your ad or profile description.
Are you looking to make new friends with benefits or just raw sexual one night stand encounters?
Do you like to take things at a certain speed? Do you want others to take control?
Are you into any fetishes?
Are you willing to host or travel?
You could also mention what swinger clubs you go to.
If there are some things you definitely are not looking for, you may want to mention them, so the wrong people don’t waste their or your time corresponding.
Now let’s move on to swinger ad and profile pictures and how important they are.
Swinger Ad and Swinger Profile Pictures
Pictures are a very important part of a swinger ad or profile. Pictures are usually the next thing that is looked at after the headline. Some sites let you select a picture that shows in searches and while browsing ads, not just the headline. If they have this feature, this picture is very important to draw attention to your ad or profile. Use it to your advantage.
Pictures should always be current and kept that way. Don’t show pictures of you from 10 years ago. People want to know what you look like now.
Make sure that you have a few pictures that show your overall appearance. If you are a couple, make sure you have pictures of the both of you. If both of you are in the same picture, that is even better.
You don’t need professional pictures. In fact, the everyday snap shots of the two of you out having fun are the best. Like to boat? Take pictures on the boat. Like to dance? Get someone to snap a few pictures of the two of you dancing. See where I am going here?
One thing to keep in mind when selecting pictures is that others are going to use them to determine if they are even slightly sexually attracted to you. So, make sure the pictures you post do resemble what the two of you look like and will look like when you meet new swingers.
Pictures are so important that I would even go as far to say, if you are not going to post pictures, don’t waste your time creating a great swingers ad or profile. You will not be happy with the lack of responses you get.
Start Creating Your Swingers Ad and Profile
Now that you know how to write a great swingers ad and swingers profile, start taking notes on what you want to include in it and what pictures you want to post. Now, get to it. The quicker you get your ad or profile posted the faster you will start meeting new friends in the swinger lifestyle.